Avis Joanne Saylor was born in Michigan on March 9, 1933, the first-born of John and Elizabeth and beloved sister to Lois Gilbert of Marstons Mills. She moved to Boston as a young adult and experienced a life-changing event when she attended a Billy Graham convention, subsequently committing her life to God. Avis was a devoted and lifelong student of God’s word. While studying at Gordon College in Wenham, MA she met her future husband, Carlyle Saylor, on a blind date and married him in November 1956, upon the completion of his degree as a minister. Together, they served in churches in New York, New Hampshire, and Massachusetts, and engaged in work at Gordon-Conwell Seminary in South Hamilton, Mass.
Avis spent much of her adult life as a minister’s wife, feeding and entertaining countless Bible studies and seminary student families, working with a limited budget to prepare multiple course gourmet meals that served a crowd. A parishioner described Avis as co-pastor with Carl, saying “she was right beside him with her loving and caring of the congregation.” Avis spun gold out of straw to create a comfortable life for her family, sewing costumes and clothes for her children. In all of her work, whether raising their four children, working in school administration and education, or fulfilling her role in churches, she was organized, well-dressed, and careful to attend to even the smallest of details, especially taking pleasure in preparing good food and reading at day’s end. With her neat script and careful words, Avis shared kindnesses and thoughtful gestures, lovingly arranging beauty around her with plants and artwork in peaceful surroundings. Always ready with a cup of tea and a sweet treat, she delighted in the occasional social event or concert, and embodied a playful and joyful spirit, enjoying games, crafts, dining out, and traveling.
Avis lived her life with grace and love and was a friend to many, but her family always came first and she loved them beyond measure. Avis and Carl shared a strong faith and lovingly devoted their lives to raising their children. Nothing made them happier than to be in their presence and they relished their role as grandparents to their many grandchildren. In her final years as a widow at Brooksby Retirement Village, Avis had many friends and caregivers that she cared about. As one friend stated, ‘she was a gentle and Godly presence in their lives’. Beneath our mother’s humble demeanor lay a soul of strength and determination, which carried her through the many demands and responsibilities of ministerial life, long-lasting pain in her last years, and the death of her husband of over 60 years. We loved and admired her more with each passing day.
Like Carl, Avis passed away at the age of 87 in the early hours of the morning on a late January day. She will be remembered and loved by those she touched, especially her sister Lois Gilbert of Marstons Mills, her son, daughters, sons-in-law, and daughter-in-law: Sandy and Carter Mitchell of Nantucket, Stephen and Pamela Saylor of Annisquam, Cheryl and Jeff Evans of Orleans, and Kathy Germaine of Wayland, along with her grandchildren, Adam and Ethan Saylor, Amelia and Emily Reardon, Caleb and Emily Mitchell, Maggie and Cameron Evans, and Grace Germaine, and extended family members, including her nephew John Kennan.
To honor Avis’ talents and service in providing home-cooked meals for others, donations may be made to the Trinitarian Congregational Church of Wayland’s Food Bank, their Deacons Fund for helping those in need, or Brooksby Village’s staff appreciation fund, https://www.ericksonseniorliving.com/brooksby-village/contact.